With a Little Help From My Friends

Over the last twelve years I have learnt that no woman is an island and sometimes it is only the fool who pretends to be. As a single parent I have had to accept that sometimes I can’t do it all on my own and a little help from my friends is required. This help [...]



Coming out and coming in

Back in July last year I put up this blog post which discussed my sexuality and ended with this paragraph:
“I know I hold a position which cannot be justified, and that the secular is sensible enough not to find virtuous therefore, I can’t discuss it with them. The effect of this means I walk around [...]



Summer Holiday Tips….For the Brave and Not So Brave

For the brave I direct you to Tim Dowling’s article in the Guardian today about What are you going to do with your children this summer? I say this is for the brave because whilst some of it is stuff we could all do to carry some of it through you would really need nerves [...]



Budget Britain

The Guardian has an article about Bargain London. It’s an article more useful for its links than it’s actual content, particulary the one to “The Artful Ticket-Dodger”.
Whilst these articles both focus on London they are based around the idea that you don’t have to pay a fortune to enjoy a bit of culture. Having lived [...]



Cast offs and casting off

I have discovered one of the perks of having a teenager who is growing up at an alarming rate….you get to wear their cast offs. We had great fun last night working out which t-shirts no longer fitted her, but fitted the slimmed down version of me. Thing was it wasn’t just the fit which [...]



Knitting, Sex and God and Single Parenting Across the Pond

New blog, Knitting, Sex and God, seems like it’s going to be an interesting read and so is one I’m recommending people go and explore. I don’t think I know the writer – although she obviously reads this blog - (but having looked at her profile I’m thinking even if I don’t actually know her we [...]



The Lone Parent Benefit Changes

Ok, so we know it’s not an issue that I’m going to be impartial about but this is not going to be a rant. Rather I want to talk through my own situation and story to illustrate the strengths and weaknesses of both sides of the argument relating to the changes in lone parent benefit [...]